March for Life!!!! We're going!!!

My three daughters and I are going to the March for Life.  I have a dear friend who lives in the area and has invited us to stay with her.  No, we're not roughing it like so many of the heroic young people who go.

Anybody else going??  I would love to meet blogging friends there.  

I'm excited.  Not only will it be a fun trip for me and the girls but I will get to see a dear friend and, most importantly, stand up and be counted as one who will not be silent as innocent human lives are being taken.

I am hoping that Obama will see the numbers and, being a skilled politician, will realize that it will be politically damaging to him to alienate this enormous group of voters.  My greater hope and prayer is that he will experience conversion on the life issues, that in the silence of his heart he will come to realize that the taking of any human life is horribly wrong.

!!!!!!! COLD DAY !!!!!!!!!!

And by "cold day"  I mean the schools are closed!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  Wooohoooo!!!

Was I happy to turn on the TV and see that nearly all the schools are closed because it's dangerously cold outside???  Was I happy to softly tell my kids they did not have to get up??  Was I happy to climb back in to my still warm bed???

I was!!!!

Because the temperature was 11 degrees below zero without calculating the wind chill!!!

It's a gorgeous sunny day with these frigid temperatures and the snow is glistening like diamonds.  I may take some pictures later.  But for right now I am too cozy warm inside and I think I'll just enjoy looking at the frosted world outside from the window.

Stay warm!!!!

Obama, the Mama

I have been quite critical of Michelle Obama at times on this blog. But I hear she has called herself the "mom-in-chief" in the White House. How cool is that? I love it. You go, Michelle.

Heather Cabot wrote an interesting article on this in the Huffington Post entitled "What the Mom-in-Chief Means to Moms."

"Whether you've opted out, opted in, on-ramped, off-ramped and back again, you have to appreciate what a breath of fresh air it is to finally hear a striving Supermom like Obama admit that even she needs to make tough choices when it comes to career and family. By focusing on her self-titled role, "mom-in-chief," for the first year in the White House, she seems to be a woman who understands that having it all doesn't necessarily mean having it all at the same time."

Cabot goes on to say,

"By calling herself "mom-in-chief," Obama sends a strong message that being a mom means being a leader, an attribute that mothers often overlook in their parenting roles. By celebrating her position rather than apologizing for it, she connects the notion of leadership beyond the walls of corporate suites and presidential mansions to the homes of average parents."

Yeah! I encourage you to read the whole article.

I found it intelligent and well written.

Bone Chilling Cold....brrrrrr

Today, when we left for school, the temperature was below zero.  Five below, I think.

This is REALLY cold.  We can take a lot of cold here in Michigan.  Our blood is used to it.  We have the right clothes.

But THIS weather is really INHOSPITABLE TO HUMAN BEINGS!!!!!

They warn us that any uncovered skin could be frost bitten.  GREAT!  How am I supposed to cover my entire face?

This is scary cold.

OK.  Want some good news.  You won't believe this.  I wish I had had my camera.

I saw a robin on the way in to my Bible Study!!!!!!! It was definitely a robin.  It was sitting in a small tree and I actually stopped (risking frostbite:-) to make sure it really was.  It was a beautiful plump robin.

Now keep in mind that we here in Michigan LONG to see a robin as the first sign of Spring.

I know this is not the first sign of Spring.  But it is sign of hope, is it not??  

We can endure (all things, through Christ), and Spring will come!!!!

Stay warm, all you Northerners.  And you in Hawaii?  Please be sure to thank the Lord many times a day for the enormous blessing of your absolutely beautiful weather.  Please enjoy and appreciate it for us.  God is good.

Weight Loss Wednesday

Accountability Numbers

This Week:  No Change

Overall:  Down 9.5 pounds

Hmmm.  I was expecting a loss, maybe even a couple pound loss.  Maybe it will show up next week.  I feel like I've been eating well.  

Course I'm not counting my Weight Watcher points.  Without counting it's easy to not recognize how much you're eating.  Still, I've lost 9.5 pounds without counting points most of the time.  I'm still feeling encouraged.  (Even though there are cashews in the cupboard calling my name :-)

Snow! Snow! Snow!

We are getting dumped on here in Southeastern Michigan.  Most of it came over the weekend so there was no "snow day" to be had.  There would have been though had it been during the week.  We must have gotten 10 inches or more on Saturday.

Everything is just getting buried.  But you know what?  I kind of like the snow.  I don't like driving in it.  I kind of like shoveling it.  (Although I only do a little).  And I like the drama of it.  Plus, you have to admit, it's very beautiful.  I believe I would miss it if I lived in a warmer climate.

The patio table always gives a good idea.

All you Northerners, stay safe on the roads!  (Go slow-- that's my mantra to my teen drivers.)

Twilight books-- OK for girls to read?

This post is part of Family Moment Monday sponsored by Motherhood for Dummies. Family Moment Monday invites posting on "family activities, games, movies, crafts, lessons, thoughts, or even parenting tips." Check out her site for more great family ideas.

OK. I know my regular readers are probably getting sick of hearing about these books. It's just that reading them really gets the mommy-thinking going as I try to discern whether or not they could be harmful reading.  For those of you  unfamiliar with the books-- this is a series of what I would call romance novels for young teen girls.  Bella, the main character, falls in love with a vampire.  I'll try to be brief.

I would certainly not recommend them for young girls (or anyone for that matter) as "good books," as in books that edify or inspire the reader or books that lead you to a greater understanding of truth. They are not great literature.

Could some girls be harmed by reading them? Probably some girls could, especially girls who are vulnerable. (Suzanne knows someone who has.) I don't think my daughter will be effected by them because she's a solid responsible thinking young girl. I don't think a couple books will change that....especially because I'm talking with her about the problematic messages.

So why did I let her read the first three books? (I'm still deciding about the fourth, but leaning toward no. ) I think parenting teens, leading them along the right paths is similar to pulling in a big fish. Sometimes you have to reel them in hard and sometimes you have to let the line out. If you never let the line out a little there is risk of snapping the line. (provoking rebellion) Because she's a good girl, because she REALLY wanted to read these books and all her friends were reading them and because what I heard about them sounded fairly harmless it seemed like a good time to let out the line.

Do I still think so for this particular daughter at this particular time? I think so. The books are not as innocent as I was hoping, but I think they will not influence my daughter. I would have preferred that she not be exposed to quite so much sensual imagery but I think she'll be fine. The fourth book might be another story since I understand it gets worse.

Personally, as I start Book 3 I'm getting a little tired of the story as the dangers drag on and the decisions of Bella the main character become more and more troublesome.

Parenting...it's tough.

Amazing Pro-Life Summit

Today I attended the most amazing pro-life summit.  Want to know who spoke?  Are you ready?

Janet Smith, Al Kresta, Bishop Earl Boyea, Joe Scheidler, Ed Rivet, Deal Hudson, and Father Frank Pavone!!!!  What an amazing group of speakers.  Every talk was excellent.  

This summit was held right at my own parish, Christ the King in Ann Arbor.  It was presented by "Citizens for a Pro-life Society."  

Cd's are available.

Wow.  I drove through some of the most treacherous snowy driving I've ever been in to aattend this summit.  It was worth it.

I'm feeling encouraged and energized to do more pro-life work.

More Reflections on "Twilight"

This book is very engaging.  It really is.  While I don't think it's great literature the story line is so different that you REALLY want to know what happens next.

I have started book 2.  And I as I read I find myself thinking about how differently I read a book when it's for my own pleasure as opposed to reading it as a mom and knowing my child is reading it.

All books are written from a point of view.  The author expresses that point of view through the novel.  There are messages.  I believe that in great books the messages represent the truth.  When the messages do not represent the truth, you might still be reading a wonderfully crafted piece of fiction but perhaps not a book that will better you as a person.

OK.  I'm rambling a little here.

Bella decided she wants to be a vampire so she can live "forever" with Edward and not grow old while he stays young.  In my mind, of course, I place this within the context of eternity.  Why would anyone want to live forever and not experience heaven until the end of time?  But Bella has no faith.  Edward has become, I would say, her god.

Edward will not make her a vampire (by biting her) because he believes the souls of vampires are lost.

The most virtuous vampire in the book, Carlisle who is Edward's foster father, believes that vampires do still have souls and that they could gain heaven someday.  So he lives his life trying to do good.  In my mind this raised an interesting question (sort of) and I was glad the topic of the spiritual life came into the story.   Bella has clearly not thought of such things.  Her self-destructive desires are to me very disturbing and I want to talk to Mary about this.

Bella wants to end her life as a normal human being.  She also takes a lot of risks.  She seems to enjoy the thrill of danger.  Since all teenagers have a tendency to flirt with risk this concerns me.  The book is told from Bella's point of view.  Bella, is a rather neglected child from a broken home.  I find her self-centered just as her parents seem to be.  Might young readers of this book think that Bella's view of life is normal or acceptable?

Weight Loss Wednesday

Accountability Numbers

This week:  Down one half pound

Overall:  Down 9.5 pounds

I'm happy with any movement in the right direction.

More on "Twilight"

OK.  I finished the book.

For those who have not read it, let me say that there are some positive aspects of this book, particularly considering what else is out there to read.

The vampire who Bella loves is part of a group of vampires who "abstain" from drinking the blood or killing humans, although they instinctively desire to do so.  They abstain for moral reasons.  Instead they go on regular hunting trips and kill animals.  The concept is kind of gruesome but I like the metaphor that can be applied to human sexuality.  Control, limitation, etc.  The notion of resisting temptation for the greater good is quite positive.

Still, Edward makes it clear to Bella that he does not know how well he can control himself.  Fair enough.  But Bella continues to put herself in situations of isolation with him that are risky for both of them.  He grows in his confidence to control himself but still indicates that there is a danger.  (Another good parallel to the struggle to remain chaste.)

But in Bella's case we're talking about a life-threatening risk and she justifies her decisions on the basis of love.  As a mother I am therefore concerned about the model of Bella's judgement.  Also, what is described as love, at least at first, really seems to be nothing more than  physical attraction.  OK.  Many love relationships begin with physical attraction.  

It was this risk that Bella takes that led me to tell my daughter that risky men are not good guys to date (when she starts dating.)  Good common sense should override physical attraction.  "Bad boys" are not good!

Because of the curious story line though the lesson is a little confusing.  Edward tries quite successfully to be good.  He is very committed to Bella's safety.  Still, they take risks.

He often sleeps with her in her bed!!! Chastely, mind you.  While the book is VERY sensual there really is no sexual content.  They kiss occasionally.  

My message to Mary:  It is a very bad idea to lie in the same bed with a guy you really, really like.  It's a very bad idea.  It is almost always an occasion of sin.  Men are not vampires and he is not going to stay awake all night just enjoying looking at your face.  NOT going to happen.

I guess the concern as a mom is that young people might think they can withstand temptation and do this kind of thing.

More tomorrow....

Happy Epiphany!!

On a lighter note, I remember once listening to two of my children when they were quite young singing "We Three Kings" as we were driving along in the car.

I thought I had hear them wrong.  "Say that line again," I called back.

They both sang clear as a bell, "We three kings of glory and tar..."

I couldn't stop laughing and they had no idea what was so funny.  "You mean it's not 'glory and tar?'" they asked, confused.

Twilight

I have allowed my 14 year old daughter to read the first three books of the Twilight series.  After looking through them a little I decided I better read them too so I could talk to her about them.

I'm almost finished with the first book.

I'm going to have to write more about this because it's really on my mind.

But the first thing I thought to tell Mary was the following:

I know this is a fictional book, a fantasy story.  But I do want you to remember something.  (Not that my daughter dates yet or anything.)

If a guy tells you he's dangerous, HE IS!!!  OK?  Get rid of him!

If he does things that are dangerous-- like drinking, or taking drugs, or driving fast, do not date that guy!!

There are girls that feel drawn to the "bad boy."  IT"S NOT A GOOD IDEA!

And it doesn't matter how attractive such a guy is.  It doesn't matter how you feel about him.  Don't date guys that do dangerous things.....

OK, Mary?

Her response:   OK Mom.

(Nuf said.  For now.)

Scrabble Anyone?

Scrabble is one of my favorite games.  On New Year's Eve I had the pleasure of playing it with my 17 year old son as our family watched the New Year's festivities on TV.

This is the board when we were finished.  I won, but just by a few points.

For you Scrabble players, it's a nice board, isn't it?  Pretty spread out.

Why do I like Scrabble?

1.  I like words.  I like putting them together.  I like thinking about them.

2.  You learn new words when you play Scrabble.  (and you try to make up new words:-)

3.  It's a slow game.  There is time to think.  And because there is time to think, there is also time to talk.  It's more social than other games.  

4.  It exercises the mind.  This is good.

Any other favorite games out there?

How many days till Christmas??

When I posted the following picture of my cherished purchase of the "Countdown to Christmas" Snowman,  I know that many of you were DYING to know what it would read on Christmas Day.

Soooo....

Are you ready?  This is what it says!!!!!

Now my very analytical godson wished it would have said 365 days until Christmas.  Yeah.  that would have been even neater.  Still, the Ho Ho Ho is cute, I think.  Better than all zeros.

Happy New Year, all.

New Year's Resolutions...

Alexa at Roc Around the Clock wrote the following in regard to New Year's Resolutions.

"I don't think I need any self-imposed opportunities for feeling guilty for not measuring up."

I think she makes a good point.  I tend to make rather extravagant NYRs in the hopes of goading myself toward "perfection."  In doing so, I can set myself up for disappointing failure.

So this year I will make the following open-ended resolutions with the intention of making some progress, not necessarily achieving a measurable amount that might, in fact, in the context of my life, not be attainable.

For 2009 I resolve to do the following, to the extent that I can.....

Pray more and do some fasting for some particular intentions.

Take our dog Lucky for more walks as part of the next resolution.

Get more exercise.

Read and write more.

Spend a few minutes (15?) each day trying to get my house a little more tidy.

Love more.

Happy Solemnity!!!

Most importantly, Happy Solemnity of the Blessed Virgin Mary, Mother of God.

Yes, she is the mother of God.  How awesome is that?  Happy Feast Day, Mother!!!

Happy New Year!!!!!

Happy New Year to all my blogging friends!!!!!!

May 2009 be a year of great blessing for you all!!

Tomorrow, (well, later today) I will post my resolutions...

Should Auld Acquaintance Be Forgot????

I have received a lovely photo Christmas card from a family.

I have no idea who this family is.  They do not look familiar.  Their names don't ring a bell.  

The card is addressed specifically to me, not my whole family.  And I don't know these people.

Now it occurred to me that it could be a blogging friend.  But the address includes my married name (Bogdan) as well as my maiden name. Most of you don't know my maiden name.

Could it be someone from my high school or college?  The woman has a rather unusual first name and I don't remember ever knowing someone by that name.

AND IT'S DRIVING ME NUTS!!!!  WHO ARE THESE PEOPLE AND HOW DO THEY KNOW ME?!?!

OK.  If it's one of you out there and I should indeed know you, please accept my apologies and 'fess up.  I don't want to be rude.

I HAVE STARED AND STARED AT THAT PICTURE AND I DON'T KNOW WHO IT IS.

Any ideas??

Weight Loss Wednesday

Accountability Numbers

The past two weeks:  No Change

Overall:  Down 9 pounds

By some miracle I actually have not yet gained any weight over the holidays.  And this after spending several days eating mostly cookies.  I kid you not.  I've been terrible, eating pretty much whatever I wanted, whenever I wanted.

Still, with no change I must have some stop mechanism in place that has held me back, although I've been aware of no self-denial.  None.

Maybe the scale is broken?  Could it be?

They're looking so much alike...

Everybody has always said how much my children look like each other.  I've never really seen it.  They all look so different to me.  But lately my two youngest daughters got their hair cut just like my oldest.  They're also getting very close to each other in height.

Don't get me wrong.  I still see BIG differences in their appearances-- more differences than similarities.  But when I see one of them out of the corner of my eye (not straight on), or when their backs are turned.... I can for a second think it's a different daughter.  It's so funny.

Straight on they look a lot different.  And in this picture you can't see the similarity in hairstyles.  There is an 11 year age difference between the oldest and the youngest.

Still, these girls are really starting to look like sisters.

Cousins...You gotta love 'em.

Christmas is usually celebrated at our house.  My sister comes with her family from St. Louis.  My brother comes with his from Lansing (about an hour and 15 minutes away).  And family friend Lisa came this year from Chicago.  It's great fun to have cousins, aunts and uncles together.

We all love each other.  I think this time spent together is priceless.  The kids experience unconditional love.  Family bonds are strengthened.  And everybody just has a lot of FUN!!!  The kids look forward to it every year.

Cousins don't care if you're athletic or well esteemed by your classmates at school.  They don't care what kind of grades you get or if you're talented.  They just want to hang out with you.

This year we played a lot of games. I particularly enjoy family activities adults and children can play together.  Tumbling Towers below is one of them.  We also played Scrabble, PDQ, Blokus, and others.  

Since some people stayed at a nearby hotel there was also a hot tub to relax in,

a pool to swim in.... or wrestle in.....

And time to just hang out with those special friends who also just happen to be cousins!

God is good.

Merry Christmas, and Happy Birthday to Mary!!!

Christmas Eve.  Everything done.  Presents under the tree.  Mom duly exhausted.  All ready to go.

We had a wonderful Christmas with my sister and brother, their families, and dear family friend Lisa.

And the very next day..... Sweet Mary turned 14.  We put up the pastel balloons and streamers.  Wrapped her presents in BIRTHDAY paper (no red or green)  (Sometime I'll post about the Christmas I spent in labor all day, refusing to go to the hospital and leave my other children opening their presents.  Finally went to the hospital fully dilated and managed to bring Mary into the world on the 26TH so she could have a birthday of her own.)

Happy Birthday Mary!!!!!!  

What a blessing to have you in our family.  Sweet, responsible, adorable, hard-working, precious Mary Sunshine (as I sometimes call her).

May the Lord bless you with every good thing and keep you in His grace all the days of your life.  

It's beginning to look a lot like Christmas!!

Some scenes from my home.

Our Advent calendar is on the left.  I love it.
It has a pocket with a Nativity figure for each day.  

Baby Jesus is put in the manger on the 24th.

I love this little Nativity scene with a light that shines on Baby Jesus.

Decorating the tree...

Snow Angels!!

I have not had much time to post OR read.  

I wish all my blogging friends a blessed and peaceful Christmas!!!!

It's Bitter Cold!!!!

It's soooo cold. It's 2 degrees out and that's WITHOUT the wind chill!!!  This morning the wind chill was 20 below!  I have no idea what it is now.  It's just sooo cold.  And we in Michigan are really used to cold weather, but this is frigid.

Still, it's very beautiful with Christmas lights and all.  We will most definitely have a white Christmas...

And....would you believe it?  Here is the little snapdragon that won't give up.  It's half buried in snow and perhaps it is dead, but it's still green!!!

Could it be that its challenging location between the rock and the foundation of the porch is now an advantage?  Maybe it is receiving a little protection from the elements.   It's dead flowers have not even fallen off.  It's wilted, but not that much.

It is one inspiring little flower.

Friday was a SNOW day!!!!

I've been so busy with Christmas preparations I haven't had time to post much.

Friday was a snow day!!!!  Woohoooo.  It was too bad the kids had to miss their Christmas parties and concerts but at least Jim had a whole day to catch up on AP History.

We must have had a foot of snow!!  It was a mess.

Took a long time to clear the driveway and sidewalks.

It's been just black and white outside for several days now.  I love a good snowfall.

And I LOVE SNOW DAYS!!!!!!

(I guess we're getting more snow tonight.)

Do I love my Starbucks mug????

Do I love my Starbucks insulated travel mug?!?  Yes!!

Well, most of the time.  the rest of the time I am simultaneously amazed AND frustrated at how WELL it works.

It keeps the coffee/tea TOO HOT!!!

I'm not kidding.  It stays exactly as hot as when you first poured it for a 

REALLY, REALLY long time.  The problem is, for me, this is really too hot to comfortably drink.  I keep burning myself!

However, if what you want to do is take a cup of something hot with you to Mass, but you don't want to drink it until after Mass so as to receive Communion....then it works perfectly.   After about an hour or two the hot beverage is about perfect to drink.  I'm not kidding.  It's that good. And in that situation, I just love it.

Weight Loss Wednesday

OK.  It's 8:15 at night and I just realized it's Wednesday.  I bet you were all thinking boy she must have really pigged out this week and isn't going to tell us.

Accountability Numbers

This week:  No Change

Overall: Down 9 pounds

It probably would have been better if I hadn't eaten about 8 Oreos last night.

Some people really should not have cookies in the house.  I'm one of those people

Meeting old Friends!

I have had TWO occasions lately to reunite with good friend and reader of this blog Mary O.

Mary moved recently to the Holy Land.  Well, not the literal Holy Land.  She didn't move to Israel.  She moved to the approximate vicinity of Notre Dame, Indiana.  Why am I referring to Notre Dame as the Holy Land?  Well, that's the topic of another post.

Anyway, Mary was recently back visiting and managed, to our delight, to squeeze in a Starbucks with good friend Jill and me.

Here is Mary arriving at the Starbucks...

And Mary with Jill and me...

It was such fun.  We miss Mary terribly.

BUT... this past weekend I was able to see her again as she generously agreed to come by my son's caroling party at his home in South Bend.  (Even though Mary had just arrived home from a very busy weekend.) We were able to visit with her whole family.  What a treat!!

How very precious is time spent with old friends!

Family Christmas Traditions

I am participating in Family Moment Monday hosted by Motherhood for Dummies.

We have a few, very simple family Christmas traditions.  First, there are the traditional ornaments.  I like to buy Christmas ornaments for my children that signify something special that they like or do.  These ornaments are set aside when we decorate the tree and only that person is to put them up.  It's fun to see them over the years and the kids seem to enjoy them.  Someday they will probably have them on their own tree, I hope.

We keep an empty manger in the middle of our Advent wreath.  Whenever someone does a good deed or makes a sacrifice for someone else they put a straw in the manger.  The goal is to have the manger nice and full by Christmas to keep the Baby Jesus warm.

On Christmas morning we drape streamers across the top of the stairs to remind the kids that they can't go down yet.  Our rule is that you can't go downstairs until you hear the song "Joy to the World."  My husband and I go down first to set things up.  We bring to the top of the stairs all the little Baby Jesus figures for each of the Nativity scenes, the manger in the Advent wreath, the Advent calendar, etc.  Everyone gets to place a Baby Jesus in a manger.

We light all the candles on the Advent Wreath.  We start the music and take pictures as all the kids come down the stairs with big smiles on their faces, each holding a Baby Jesus.

Then as we listen to the remainder of the song, reminding us of the real meaning of Christmas, we stand around the Advent wreath.  When the music stops we all sing Happy Birthday to Jesus and the kids blow out the Advent candles.

THEN, it's pandemonium.

New Blogging Friend and New Book Alert!

I have a new blogging friend, Nancy Carabio Belanger, the author of the new children's book Olivia and the Little Way.

I must confess that I have not yet read this book but I heard Nancy interviewed about it on Ave Maria Radio and any book about St. Therese HAS to be good. Agreed?

This is a fictional account of a fifth grader who learns the "little way" of Therese as she adjusts to life in a new school. I plan to buy two copies for Christmas presents and I urge all of you to check out this book too. I think some of the children in my life might really gain from learning about the "little way" and my patron Therese from this book.

Nancy has a post a post linked here that answers questions about how she came to write the book.

And check out Nancy's blog for lots of great information and inspiration from Therese!

St. Therese, pray for us!

Weight Loss Wednesday

Accountability Numbers

This Week's Numbers:  Down 1/2 pound

Overall Loss/Gain:  Down 9 pounds

Not much of a loss.  I have to say I was not very attentive this week to what I was eating.  In fact, I intentionally overate several times.   Eating for fun.  That's what I really have to be on guard against.

I like Suzanne's advice which says so much.  "Eat like a lady."  Yeah.  I think that says it all.

Rain, rain, GO AWAY

Yuk!  I hate this weather.  It's very rainy, very dark, very GREY, and pretty cold.

It's winter rain-- my least favorite weather.  ( except for dangerous weather, you know)

I'd take a good snowstorm or thunderstorm any day over this mamby-pamby weather, not really cold, not cold enough for snow but cold enough to make you feel chilled!

It's grey!  SO GREY!!! Not a break in the foggy looking, thick grey sky.

It's 37 degrees.

Then tonight it's supposed to freeze.  Driving could get really dicey

BUT!! The little snapdragon that wouldn't die is still making me smile.  Here it is.  We've had weeks of freezing cold weather and it's still green.  OK.  It's pretty wilted, but it's still green.  The little miracle flower.  I think it's still alive, believe it or not.

You can even see a bit of its last little pink flower.  Blessed be God.

Feast of the Immaculate Conception!!

"For the first time after thousands of years God, in His wisdom and power and love, created again a human being in that state in which He had created our first parents.  Immaculate Virgin, you are that human being.  Because of sanctifying grace infused into your soul, you were from the first moment of your existence most intimately united with God and endowed with the most precious gifts of heaven. You possessed a perfect faith, a firm hope, a burning love, a deep humility, a purity greater than that of the angels."

 from Mary My Hope by Father Lawrence G. Lovasik

Happy Feast Day, Oh Blessed Mother

My Take on Congress and the Big Three

"Congress will insist that any legislation include rigorous and ongoing oversight to guarantee that taxpayers are protected and that resources are directed to ensure the long term viability and competitiveness of the American auto industry."

So says Nancy Pelosi.

Since when has Congress become the experts on how the auto companies can be competitive?

What a nightmare.  The Congress is going to tell the Big 3 how to make cars?  Well, yes.  They'll tell them how to make cars-- green cars, low mileage cars, and whatever other cars they think would be neat.

Do you know why the auto companies have been building lots of trucks and SUVs?  Because those are the products that bring them the most profit!!!  And that's what people were buying!!! In accusing the automakers of not having responded to consumer demands, of not being more environmentally conscious, etc. Congress is being unfair.  They do not seem to realize that the purpose of making cars is to make money!!!

The problems of the auto industry are complex.  I don't think Congress, in their arrogance, gets it.  

So.  That's my rant on Congress telling the auto makers how to run their businesses.

Six Things that Make Me Happy!!!

Jean at Catholic Fire has tagged me for the Six Things that Make me Happy Meme.

According to the rules, I have to post six things that make me really happy ... and pass it on to give six more people a reason to be thankful!

So six things that make me happy....

1. The Eucharist, the Mass, saying the rosary with my family, knowing that Jesus is always with me.

2. Spending time with my husband and my family, especially when we are all together.

3. Blogging!!!

4. Reading!

5. Listening to talk radio and watching television news programs-- learning!

6. Climbing into my bed at night, relaxing and having one last conversation of the day with my Lord.

I love a lot of blogs.  There are some I know have already been tagged on this.  I tag the following:

Barb at SFO Mom

Nancy Carabio Belanger

Michelle from Rosetta Stone

Lynz at The Miles Family

Mimi at Bigger Than a Breadbox

Kalona at Knocking Everywhere

Weight Loss Wednesday

Accountability Numbers

This week:  Up 1.5 pounds

Overall:  Down 8.5 pounds

The lesson for me this week is one I know full well.

I cannot lose weight by eating whatever I want, whenever I want.

Nuff said.

Spoiling or Loving

Today my daughter got new braces on her bottom teeth.  She had already had the top ones.

I have three other children who have had braces.  I know they hurt, sometimes a LOT, when they first get them on.  And I know it's not just teenage whining because my good friend Pat had braces as an adult and she told me that they do indeed hurt A LOT when you first get them on.

So.  With each of my other children, on that first day of braces, I brought them a milkshake to school at lunchtime in case their lunch was too hard to eat.

One of my sons was in so much pain he couldn't even drink the milkshake.  Touching the straw to his teeth hurt too much.

The first time I did this a close friend of mine said I should not do that.  She said I should let them tough it out.  I considered that she might be right.  We don't want our children to think that life does not include suffering.  We also don't want them to think that when things are tough that mom will always come to the rescue.  We don't want them to remain dependent.  We don't want to spoil them.

On the other hand, I considered that it might also just show them how much I love them, that I care enough to take the time to help, when I can.  I thought it might show them an example of love, that we make sacrifices for the poor (as in poor teen with hurting teeth:-), that we give of our time to help others.

I asked if she thought she would have trouble eating lunch.  She said she didn't know.  I asked if she wanted me to bring her a milkshake.  She got that sweet smile of satisfaction on her face and honestly said, "I don't know if I'll have trouble with lunch.  But I would love a milkshake."

My heart said do it.  So I did.  She loved it.

When to allow heels....

I bought my daughter her first little pair of heels.

I think it's a tough call to know when is the right time to allow these kind of grown up things.

She's thirteen.  I don't let her wear makeup except a little colored lip gloss.  She looks so lovely anyway, she really doesn't need it.

Her school doesn't have dances but she has asked to go to other middle school dances and I have said no.  Dances even on the high school level are often not the healthiest social environments.  I just didn't see how allowing her to go to middle school dances would be in her best interest.

So.  She wanted a little heel.  A lot of her classmates wear them.  And she hasn't been badgering me about it.

This is what we found.

I think they're cute.  And since it's a wedge it will be a little easier to walk on than other styles.

She loves them.

Even in jeans they're pretty cute.  Her class will be going to see "A Christmas Carol" this month.  It's a dressy occasion and she can wear these with her red dress.

She's happy.  I'm happy.