The cousins who were there (not everyone could come) had a great time swimming, biking, and running around.
Monday, August 13, 2007
My Vacation
The cousins who were there (not everyone could come) had a great time swimming, biking, and running around.
Sunday, August 12, 2007
We're Back.
Saturday, August 04, 2007

Thursday, August 02, 2007
My sister is here!
Tomorrow we'll meet with my brother to (hopefully) get a lot done on my father's house.
It's nice having her here. She's eight years younger than I am. We're having a lot of laughs.
Wednesday, August 01, 2007
Collapse of a Minneapolis Bridge-- no evidence of terrorism?
Does anyone else find it odd that the Department of Homeland Security would be downplaying the possibility that this is an act of terrorism? Federal and local officials are saying there is no evidence that this is an act of terrorism. Well, I should think so. There probably isn't much evidence of any kind yet. In this day and age are we to believe that an engineering error or a construction error led to the collapse of an entire bridge? No inspections? No warning signs? ALL of the people involved in maintaining the safety of that bridge dropped the ball? I find that hard to believe.
I understand that there may be a desire to not give "credit" or attention to evil people who wish to do us harm. I understand the desire to not get people terrified (which is, of course, what the terrorist wish). But I do think there is still an issue of honesty here. Should they not be saying "We really don't know the cause of this terrible accident yet and therefore can't comment on it."? Wouldn't that show a greater measure of integrity and transparency?
There have been other incidents in recent years that I have thought the same about-- incidents with dubious explanations or no plausible explanations, about which we are told there is no evidence of terrorism. Sometimes I just wonder if we're really being told everything.
Memorabilia
In our neighborhood growing up in Fort Wayne, IN, my mother always had a neighborhood May Crowning at our house. It was very simple. We made a little crown out of flowers from the yard. We carried candles. We giggled. And all the moms came to watch. This is the statue we used to crown. It's little. Nothing special. But it means so much to me now to have it on the windowsill above my sink and to remember that my mother took the time to teach us about the queen of heaven.
I took it from the house with the candles that were still in it. They were all dusty-- perhaps from the last May Crowning. I can almost feel my mother smiling.
Tuesday, July 31, 2007
Things are not always as they appear.
Monday, July 30, 2007
Sunday, July 29, 2007
Maternal Bragging Warning (and disclaimer)
On Friday when I did not feel well I said to my three youngest children. How about if you guys make the macaroni and cheese for dinner since I don't feel well. Much groaning and whining. Not in the mood for an argument or lecture I just said quietly, "I always take care of you guys when you're sick." Their response? "Yeah. You take care of us!" OK, I thought. I have no energy for an argument. Maybe I'll talk to them another time about sacrificing for others, etc.
After a few minutes I thought I heard some pans moving in the kitchen. Next, my daughter came upstairs with a few questions about noodle equivalent measurements... They were making the mac and cheese without actually being told to do it. I told them I was so proud of them I wanted to take their picture. They thought that was pretty funny, as you can see in the picture. Anyway, they made it and it was good.
Now for my disclaimer: On my blog, I only talk about the good and the positive in regard to my family. What I write about is very selective. I don't air our dirty laundry here. We have "stuff" just like all families do. We're just a group of imperfect human beings trying to do God's will, sometimes succeeding, sometimes failing. Never perfect......just so you know (smile).
Friday, July 27, 2007
Upset tummy

I'm sitting around in my pajamas feeling yucky. The girls walked up to the dollar store to get me a coke. That was nice.
Hope you're all having a good day....
Thursday, July 26, 2007
I'm exhausted. Still, the day was fun too. We belong to a neighborhood pool. All my children have learned to swim by being on this swim team. Most of the swimmers live in the neighborhood. It's a nice community activity. And my kids can walk to the pool!!! Yea!
We have a storm coming in tonight. I'm going to bed. I love a good thunderstorm when everyone is home and safe.
Wednesday, July 25, 2007
Liz as Hermione
My children are really enjoying the Harry Potter books. We have three copies of the latest book and all are finished. My seventeen year old waited in line at Borders at midnight and then heard you could buy it at Krogers with no line. He and his friends went to Krogers, bought their copies, went through the Wendy's drive-thru, and started reading in the parking lot. Well, I guess several teenagers sitting in a parking lot, all quietly looking at their laps looks suspicious. A police car pulled up behind them with its lights flashing!!!! The officer came up to the car and asked what they were doing. They explained they had just gotten something to eat and were reading their new Harry Potter books. Did he want them to leave? He burst out laughing and said no, they were fine. LOL
I'm sure someone will say I am not really Catholic for allowing my children to read Harry Potter. I have seen no harm come from it. They seem to be imaginative and intriguing stories (although admittedly a little dark). And there is clearly something very good coming from the phenomenom. We have children and young people of all ages sitting down with a 759 page book!!! (Not a video! Not a computer game! A book!!!!! Yea!)
Monday, July 23, 2007
My old glasses....
I was at my parents' house today, organizing some things, throwing other things out, etc. We're just starting to scratch the surface of the enormous job of clearing out the house. I opened my old dresser drawer to see these lovely glasses sitting right there in the front. "My glasses!" I said out loud and started laughing. It was nice comic relief from the bittersweet flow of memories mixed with sorrow. All by myself, I had a lot of tears, a few laughs, and many moments of sweet, silent smiling....
But, hey, how about these glasses....
Sunday, July 22, 2007
The Good Samaritan
The Gospel was about the good Samaritan. Deacon Steve gave a very insightful analysis of the symbolism in the story. But what really struck me was his final words to the people of our parish.
"GOODBYE For twenty five years you have been my neighbors, my friends and my sisters and brothers. I hope that I have served you well and loved you with the love of Christ! If I’ve succeeded - thank God and remember to occasionally pray for me. If I’ve failed - Please forgive me, thank God that I am leaving - and please remember to pray for me! To all of you whom Jesus the divine samaritan has treated with mercy, GO AND DO LIKEWISE!"
I immediately thought of the time some five and a half years ago when Deacon Steve blessed my family with an action of true charity. My sister-in-law had been suffering for over four years with breast cancer. She was approaching death. My friend Ann K. who some of you may have read about in Kitchen Madonna's recent apron giveaway, asked if Linda would be open to having some people from our parish come to pray over her. (Ann, who had lost the baby Stella Marie was the winner of the apron:-) She asked several people if they would come, including Deacon Steve. Steve had never met Linda. She was not Catholic, and she lived over an hour away from here. But he agreed to come.
Linda was very sick. We prayed over her from some time. Steve talked to her about a lot of things. Linda was very moved. Then we prayed over her mother who was also present. She was also very moved. Linda died a few weeks later. My brother and Linda's mother still occasionally mention this visit. I am not surprised.
Linda was a wounded neighbor by the side of the road. Deacon Steve did not even know her. But he knew she was a neighbor in need of help. He spent a whole afternoon loving his neighbor whom he had never met-- just a stranger in need of help.
Deacon Steve, you have indeed served us well and loved us with the love of Christ. May God bless you, your family, and all of your work. You can read some of Deacon Steve's wisdom at his blog, I Am Not Ashamed Of The Gospel.
Saturday, July 21, 2007
Aprons!!!

Friday, July 20, 2007
A new Apple store
Maybe I'll just go in to enter my name in the many drawings they're having on their opening day. That would be the only reason. Or would it?

Thursday, July 19, 2007
Twenty-seven years.....
We were married at the Shrine of the Little Flower in Royal Oak. It was very, very hot that day.
I wanted to post one of my wedding pictures.....well, maybe I'll try. (This is so frustrating. For the second day in a row I've spent so much time trying to scan and then post a picture. I've done it before. Just don't know what I'm doing wrong this time and no kids around to help.)
Anyway.... maybe I'll be able to post a picture tomorrow. I'm pretty tired.
My husband bought me red roses and I baked him his favorite dutch apple pie. We went out for dinner and came home for dessert.
Twenty-seven years. Could I be that old??
Wednesday, July 18, 2007
Happy Birthday Mike!!
It was my intention to go back to work after his birth. I took one look at him and decided it was completely out of the question. There was no way I could leave him. I guess I had just been completely clueless about motherhood. I had no idea what the bond and the love would be like. Suddenly there was another person in the world for whom I would do anything. I have tried to scan a baby picture of Mike to post here but no luck.
Everyone was home for dinner tonight. How delightful it is to look around the table and see the whole family.
So Happy Happy Birthday, Mike!!! We are so proud of the man you have become, all you have done, and all you are setting out to do. May God bless you today and always. I thank Him for the priviledge of being your mom!
Monday, July 16, 2007
It was fun!!
Our guests seemed to feel comfortable and most stayed quite a while and chatted and ate. I love that.
Wish you all had been there!!! (Well, I know a couple of "you" actually were. Thanks for coming!)
Saturday, July 14, 2007
One More Day...
Thursday, July 12, 2007
Graduation Party
I'm wondering if this is just a custom in the Midwest or if it's all across the country. When I was in high school we might have a kid-party for the teens-- you know, chips, pop, etc. That's it. The family might go out to dinner and the graduate given a card and a check that was somewhat more than what you would get for a birthday.
Now we have graduation open houses where large numbers of people are invited. Many adults bring cards and checks. Lots of food is provided. Some people rent tents. It looks like a small (or even not so small) wedding reception at home. It seems overdone to me. We're having one because it is so customary here that I think my graduates would feel a little neglected and left out if we were the only family to not provide one. (OK, I have bowed to peer pressure:-)
High school graduation is not a sacrament. It's not a wedding reception. It's not a college graduation, which ironically around here is celebrated the way HS graduations used to be celebrated-- maybe a nice dinner with family and perhaps a larger than usual gift or check. The college graduation is really much more of an achievement to be honored... hmmm. I have pondered what started all this.
Someone pointed out to me that it is a kind of rite of passage. This is when many people leave home for the first time. Relationships will change for the graduate. New expectations of responsibility will begin. True enough.
Anyway, we are frantically preparing for this party. The great thing is we're getting all kinds of things done on the house that otherwise would have been put off. Some people rent tents and tables and chairs around here. I draw the line on that. It's not a wedding reception. If it rains, people will have to try to squeeze into our not-so-very-big-house. If they are uncomfortably crowded, they'll leave.
My prayer is that through the intercession of that champion of hospitality, my friend Saint Martha, the guests at this party will feel welcomed and comfortable, that they will enjoy the refreshments that we will provide (and that we will have enough), that the Lord's grace would fill our home and our yard and that everyone, especially our son John, will feel well loved.... (and that I will be gentle kind and loving during the whole preparation process :-)
Tuesday, July 10, 2007
I love the ocean...
What is the definition of an over-protective mom? One who worries about her "children" swimming in the ocean when three of them are certified lifeguards!!! I'm guilty as charged. I knew it was completely irrational but those waves were really BIG. LOL
Monday, July 09, 2007
More Clouds....
Sunday, July 08, 2007
Thursday, June 28, 2007
Leaving for Florida...
We will be visiting my mother-in-law and I don't know if she has an internet connection, so I may be out of touch.
Anyway, hope to post a time or two more before I go, but if I don't get to it you'll know what happened.
Here is my thought for the day from Saint Josemaria Escriva:
"If you fall, get up with a greater hope. Self-love alone is incapable of understanding that an error, when put right, helps us to know and to humble ourselves."
Have a blessed day.
Wednesday, June 27, 2007
Happy Birthday Mary O.!!!!
Anyway, happy birthday to Mary who often comments on my blog as "anonymous" but of course, I always know who it is. Thanks for inviting me to this fun party-night. May God bless you this birthday and for many, many more to come.
Tuesday, June 26, 2007
Jim Meets Suzanne!!!
Many of you have already seen this picture on Suzanne's blog. She took it at the Steubenville conference where Jim had the pleasure of meeting her in person!! I am so happy it worked out.Sounds like it was a wonderful retreat and I can't wait to hear more about it from both Suzanne and Jim. Btw, Suzanne has a lovely montage of the retreat posted today....
Sunday, June 24, 2007
Solemnity of The Birth of John the Baptist and the anniversary of the dedication of our church!!!
This is the interior of my church, Christ the King. It was dedicated 6 years ago. Someday, when I'm not so tired, I will tell of it's coming to be.My son Jim from A Catholic Teen's Thoughts has just gotten back from his retreat at Steubenville where he met Suzanne from Sincerely My Thoughts!!!!!! I'm so happy they found each other!!! Sometime, Suzanne, you and I will meet too, I'm sure.
Saturday, June 23, 2007
Cool, sunshine-- just lovely. (My camera needs new batteries so I have no pictures :(
Swim meet this morning. Sat next to a warm and friendly mom from the country club we were swimming against. There was nothing in her manner to suggest any disdain for the little neighborhood pool we frequent. Nice.
Took care of some financial stuff with my father's estate. I don't understand finance. I am signing things that are rather confusing. I completely trust the professionals we are working with, but it's kind of unnerving. I like to feel in control and that is not at all the case here. (An opportunity to develop humility and greater surrender to God.) Don't worry. I'm not being stupid, though. I'm just learning about these things a little more slowly than the need to act on them.
The "O-family" came over for dinner along with three Notre Dame friends of my son. What fun that was. We had a simple spur-of-the-moment dinner with little planning-- the kind you have with sweet friends there is no need to impress. It was a peaceful, enjoyable time. We turned our amish table sideways so there was more room to expand, and added three or four leaves to seat 15 people. I love that table and the feeling of unity it brings when we can all sit together.
Lovely day. Another gift from our God who is so good.
Friday, June 22, 2007
One, Holy, Catholic, and Apostolic Church
Thursday, June 21, 2007
John the Piano Man
Tuesday, June 19, 2007
Concert at Kerrytown Concert House

Concert House at 8:00pm. He will play for about an hour, Sonata 23 "Appassionata" by Beethoven, Ballade Opus 23 in G minor by Chopin, and Sonata in B Minor by Liszt.
Sunday, June 17, 2007
Fathers Day
Friday, June 15, 2007
The Real Presence
I was so impressed with the skill with which Deb and Alexa and Suzanne, among others defended the Real Presence. Are you all studying theology? I know Deb is. Anyway, it's a great read if you haven't seen it.
The original post was about why Protestants are not to receive Communion in the Catholic Church. To my astonishment there were over 50 comments!!!
Thursday, June 14, 2007
Rushing and Living Well....

Tuesday, June 12, 2007
"Catholic and Loving It"

Monday, June 11, 2007
As John graduates....
Saturday, June 09, 2007
Canoing on the "Mighty" Huron
Today my husband and I and our three youngest rented one canoe and one double kayak and canoed down the Huron River. It was about a one hour trip. the weather was perfect. Blue sky, sunshine, not too hot. It was so beautiful there were times it seemed hard to believe we were still in an urban area.They were not expensive, I didn't think. For an Ann Arbor resident it was $19.00 for each craft. There was actually a small current so if you didn't even want to paddle you would still reach your destination.
It was a fun, peaceful afternoon with the family, doing something different.
Thursday, June 07, 2007
Let's motivate Ruthann!!
She is an intelligent, creative person with interesting, insightful things to say.
She is a good mother with a great son to prove it. :-)
She is a good Catholic who could contribute to discussions on things Catholic.
She must enjoy the blogosphere because I know she is reading at least this blog sometimes...
I think she would like the momentum of writing every day once she got into the habit. (despite childhood experiences with journals which you can read about on her blog... I did the exact same thing with diaries when I was young.)
I think it would prove to be a creative and intellectual outlet for her as it is for so many of us.
She is a reasonable, even-tempered person and it would be nice to have more of such people writing.
She uses words in a clever way. I enjoy her writing.
She has wisdom to share and we could all benefit from it.
So....... go Ruthann!!!!!!!
Wednesday, June 06, 2007
4New x 2 Meme!
4 New x 2 Meme!
Here is the jist: You have to share four things that were new to you in the past four years. Four things you learned or experienced or explored for the first time in the past four years. New house, new school, new hobby, new spouse, new baby, whatever. Then you have to say four things you want to try new in the next four years.
In the last four years:
1. I started my youngest two children in school after about 14 years of home schooling.
2. I experienced the death of both of my parents. (my mother 3 years ago and my father six months ago)
3. My oldest child graduated from college.
4. I started a blog!!!
In the next four years:
1. I would like to get my house cleaned and organized.
2. I would like to write a book.
3. I want to get in better shape and lose some weight. (I have experienced this before but I would like to experience it again:-)
4. I would like to experience a richer prayer life and a closer relationship to God.
I tag: anyone who would like to do this one :-)
Sunday, June 03, 2007
Title Blending Meme
Here are the rules:
Blend two book titles together by using the last word of one title and the first word of the second title. If you want, you can blend the authors’ names too. Like this:
The Divine Comedy 0f Errors by Dante Shakespeare
Harry Potter and the Half-Blood Prince of Tides by J.K Conroy
The Canterbury Tales of a Fourth Grade Nothing by Geoffrey Blume
The Screwtape Letters to a Young Poet by C.S. Rilke and of course,
The Last Don Quixote by Mario de Cervantes.
Here are my attempts:
In Conversation with Dummies by Brad Fernandez
A Christmas Toad by Arnold Dickens
The Legend of Sleepy Leagues under the Sea by Washington Verne
A Wrinkle in the Blue Dolphins by Madeleine O'Dell
Cover Letters for a Soul by Joyce Lain of Lisieux
I tag the following (should they want to do it) and anyone else who is inclined:
Mimi
Jodi
James
Mary Poppins Not
Kate
Suzanne
Do as many or as few titles as you like and tag six people. :-)