"We must hate our faults, but with a tranquil and quiet hate, not with an angry and restless hate; and so we must have patience when we see them, and draw from them the profit of holy abasement of ourselves. Without this, my child, your imperfections, which you scrutinize so subtly, will trouble you by getting still more subtle, and by this means sustain themselves, as there is nothing that more preserves our weeds than disquietude and eagerness in removing them....
To be dissatisfied and fret about the world when we must of necessity be in it, is a great temptation. God's Providence is wiser than we. We fancy that by changing our ships, we shall get on better; if we change ourselves."
from "Thy Will Be Done: letters to persons in the world" by Saint Francis de Sales
Oh to have a Saint Francis de Sales as a spiritual director....He sure speaks to me. Once while ranting and raving about the world with my brother I asked him, "Why are we doing this?" He replied, "because it makes us feel superior." Ouch. I think he was right. The devil uses whatever means he can to distract us from true conversion....
5 comments:
Oh! This has definitely been added to my must read list. The writing of St. Francis de Sales seems to be speaking directly to me
This speaks to me as well!
I am so glad to read this, and to know you are being touched - what a blessing.
You got me!! I am hooked. I know what I'll be reading this Lent :)
I think I will read more of him too.
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